Jasmin's brand of blithe spirit beats the bullies and major illness (with audio)
WHEN Jasmin Newton was told she had a brain tumour, her
response was to say she would beat the affliction.
At the same time she was told she could lose her sight, but
the 16-year-old said she would learn braille.
That was two years ago, and though she also had to face
verbal abuse from young bullies, the pretty teenager was not
bothered.
“I can't let any of this get my down,” she told herself.
“I have to rise above it all. When I get sick, I have to get
better and when people are cruel I don't listen.”
Jasmin is deaf, partially-sighted and has suffered bouts of
epilepsy.
“She also has hydrocephalus, which means she has too much
fluid in the ventricles of the brain and a condition called
hemiplegia, which leaves the left side of her body slightly
paralysed.
Life has not been easy for Jasmin from the start – but she
does not complain.
She was born 10 weeks early and weighed just 2lbs and
7ozs.
When she was three days old, Jasmin contracted meningitis,
which left her with several profound medical problems.
Her mum, 37-year-old Marcia, said she was in awe of her
daughter.
“She is courageous,” said Marcia, of Union Street, South
Normanton.
“She is very determined. She wants to be successful and make
something of herself.
“Knowing Jasmin, she'll do just that. She has never, ever
complained.”
Despite bouts of ill-health, Jasmin remains positive. When
she suffers a setback, she picks herself up and carries on.
“It wasn't very nice to be told that my eyesight was
failing,” said Jasmin, who wants to become a teacher, “but I
knew that I'd be able to learn braille.
“When I got back from the hospital, I rushed upstairs and
sorted out my bedroom.
“I figured that if I were to lose my sight, I needed to have
a good sort out beforehand.”
When a problem crops up, Jasmin solves it. Immediately.
In the past two years, she has undergone serious operations
to replace the implant – called a shunt – used to drain excess
fluid from around the brain.
She has missed many months of schooling but has continued
her studies at home.
“I have to keep going,” said Jasmin. “I want to do well. I
can't keep thinking about my problems. What's the point in
that?”
Jasmin has just completed GCSEs at The Meadow Community
School in Chesterfield and she is hoping for great things with
predicted passes of grade C and above.
“I did quite a lot of work at home,” said Jasmin, “but I had
to go into school for the exams. It was fine. I'm feeling
confident. I'll get my results next month.”
It is Jasmin's biggest wish to secure a place at the RNIB
College, Loughborough, where she will be able to complete
A-level studies.
It is another brave move for Jasmin. It's probably her
biggest leap but she doesn't see it as such and remains
cool.
If she is offered a place, Jasmin will have to leave home to
complete the next two years of her education.
She will be based on the college campus and encouraged to
live independently.
Although Jasmin is excited about the future, she admits it
could be strange for her to be away from her family.
She says it is her nine-year-old sister, Skye, that she will
certainly miss the most.
“She's been my eyes and my ears for a very long time,” said
Jasmin.
“When I go out, she usually comes with me. She helps me. She
listens out for me and watches my every move. She's so
brilliant, we're very close.”
Jasmin and Skye have always shared a special bond. From the
minute Skye was born, Jasmin loved her dearly.
As her little sister began to grow up, Jasmin soon realised
how much she would come to depend on her.
“They've both had to give up a lot,” said their mother.
“Skye has been forced to stop her gymnastics class because
we have so many hospital appointments for Jasmin.
“And Jasmin can't be as independent as she likes because she
can't cope as well as others who are the same age as her.
“If Skye goes out with her, then I'm not worried. They'll
walk to the shops and I don't mind if they're together,”
Jasmin's schoolmates have been extremely supportive and by
way of saying “thank you” to them all, her mother threw a huge
16th birthday for Jasmin at their home to which 60 children
were invited.
“It was brill,” said Jasmin, who uses a white and red cane
when she ventures out.
“Then my dad decided to get up and sing. It all got silly
after that.”
Sadly, Marcia cannot speak highly of those local youngsters
who, she says, have made unkind remarks about her daughter's
disabilities.
“It's unbelievable, isn't it?” she said.
“Jasmin has already been through so much and then young
people start being cruel.
“I can't understand it, but it has been totally out of
order.”
Jasmin does not bat an eyelid when her mum goes on to reveal
the kind of things people have been saying about her
daughter.
“They've called her a retard and everything,” said Marcia.
“People round here know that she's been through some stuff –
it's very sad. They've called her some mean names and have been
threatening too.”
Marcia has spoken to the police about these incidents in a
bid to put a stop to them.
“I don't care about it,” said Jasmin. “I don't let it get me
down. I don't respond and I think that winds them up all the
more.
“I never fight back. It's not worth it.”
Marcia knows her daughter has a great outlook on life and
she is grateful for that. She works hard to provide the best
support she can but it upsets her when things go wrong.
“It's a juggling act because I've got Skye and my
23-month-old son, Marley, to look after.
“Life is busy,” she said. “But that's fine. We've had some
great support over the past couple of years. Jasmin never feels
sorry for herself and that's what amazes me the most.
“My husband, Karl, my mum and my brother have been great. We
cope.
“Her teachers have been wonderfully helpful too, especially
Mrs Wilson and Mr Kench.”
It was two years ago that Jasmin's condition took a turn for
the worse – until then she had been coping well.
But when she started suffering headaches, Marcia began to
worry.
“We were told that she needed to have her shunt replaced and
she went into hospital for the operation. It was a worrying
time.
“Her sight had been failing and that's when we were told
that she had a brain tumour.
“Doctors called it a pituitary adenoma and said it was
benign. There was no need to operate, but it had to be
monitored in case it started to grow.”
Since becoming sight-impaired, Jasmin has completed the Race
for Life in Nottingham and raised more than £300 for Cancer
Research.
She ran the race alongside her sister, her mum and their
friend, Sandra.
“Every day, Jasmin proves that anything is possible,” smiled
Marcia.
“She never ceases to surprise me. Nothing stops her. Nothing
defeats her. Even the bullying didn't upset her. It made her
more determined.
“Jasmin is a credit to the youth of today and is an
inspiration to all kids her age.
“She has been through hell in the past two years but she's
still fighting...”









4 Comments
by skye newton, south normanton
Saturday, July 12 2008, 11:53AM
“hi j.j you are brave i will miss you when you go to loughbrough i do not want you to go but it will be good there i love you billons i love you being my big sis even somtimes i have fun by bulling you xxxxxxxxxxx i will miss you millons and billons xxxxxxxxxxx bye xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx”
by skye, south normanton
Saturday, July 12 2008, 10:52AM
“well done j.j we love you so muchbig sis, love skye and marley xxxxxx”
by marcia newton, south normanton
Saturday, July 12 2008, 10:50AM
“you make us so proud j.j. love you with all our hearts mum and dad xxxxx”
by Richard & Clare Barnett, Ripley Derbyshire
Tuesday, July 08 2008, 1:31PM
“Jasmin is a wonderful young lady, and an inspiation to all who know her.
Good luck with college Jasmin, we know you will achieve your dream!!”