Mum doesn't want pity for Harry, just for him to lead a normal life (with audio)
LITTLE Harry Hirchfield is sitting on the sofa watching
cartoons with his twin sister Annie.
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Harry and his mum, Alice.
As the two four-year-olds chatter away and laugh at the
screen, it is hard to believe that Harry is chronically ill, or
that in a few years time Annie will have to face a future
without her twin brother.
In the words of their mother Alice Hirchfield, Harry has a
disease that “kills”. He was born with a condition called
Duchenne, a degenerative form of muscular dystrophy that leads
to paralysis, breathing problems and early death.
No-one can say exactly how fast Harry's condition will
deteriorate but most patients with Duchenne are paralysed from
the neck down by the time they are teenagers and rarely live
past their twenties.
In just a few short years, Alice knows that her son will
probably need a ventilator to help him breathe and a permanent
feeding tube into his stomach.
But despite the illness, the 34-year-old remains positive
and is cherishing the time she has with Harry.
Although he cannot walk, the little boy is bright, active
and alert. He alternates between deftly whizzing around his
Spondon home in a child-size wheelchair and shuffling along on
his bottom.
Duchenne rarely affects mental development so Harry will
attend a mainstream primary school with his sister in September
and is expected to learn at the same rate.
Alice said: “Harry is mischievous, full of life and can
bum-shuffle around the house and garden for England.
“Although there are challenges ahead, many people with
Duchenne live their lives to the full, going to university and
doing normal things like spending time with friends.
“I want Harry to go to a normal school because I believe in
inclusion and although his life will be shorter than most, I
will support him in whatever he wants to do.”
Duchenne is a genetic muscle wasting disease that mostly
affects males and causes progressive muscle weakness as the
cells break down and die.
Caring for Harry is already a full-time job for Alice, a
single mum with four other children including Annie, as he
needs daily physiotherapy and constant care.
He also regularly visits Derbyshire Children's Hospital for
consultations, physiotherapy and occupational therapy and sees
a specialist in Newcastle every three months.
She said: “I function on four hours sleep a night as Harry
doesn't sleep well. He wakes up between 4am and 6am and then we
have to do about half an hour of physiotherapy.
“It's a necessary evil as it prevents his muscles from
contracting and becoming permanently deformed but it hurts him
so I hate doing it. I often go into the bathroom afterwards and
have a little cry.
“Harry must also spend time every day in a standing frame to
exercise his leg muscles, as he can't stand independently, and
he wears splints on his legs for six hours every day and at
night.”
Alice is a former nurse and is determined to keep Harry at
home as his condition worsens, rather than put him into
care.
She has been given a disability grant from Derby City
Council to build an extension on the back of her home with a
special bed for Harry, complete with a hoist to help lift him
as he gets heavier, and a fully-adapted bathroom.
As Duchenne progresses, patients also experience breathing
and feeding problems as the muscles in their chest and abdomen
weaken, so the extension will one day house the breathing and
feeding equipment that Harry will need in the future. It is
usually breathing or heart problems which eventually cause
Duchenne patients to die.
Alice said: “Harry is my son and I am determined that he
will stay with me for as long as he wants to.
“My hope is that the equipment will help Harry to live as
independently as possible as he grows older, able to do things
like go to the toilet himself until he becomes completely
paralysed, and with a portable ventilator so he can socialise
with his sister.”
She said that Annie coped very well with her brother's
disability but she has no idea how to prepare her for what lies
ahead.
She said: “Harry's condition is normal to Annie because she
has always known him this way and she is already very
protective of him.
“Once on holiday another little boy came over and asked us
why Harry was in a wheelchair. Annie's reply was to ask him why
he was wearing glasses!”
Today, patients with Duchenne and their carers from across
the country will take part in a lobby of Parliament organised
by national charity Action Duchenne, calling for more
Government funding for research into the condition.
Ms Hirchfield was going to attend with Harry but he has been
poorly with constipation – another common side effect – so she
decided not to go.
She said: “As well as calling for more funding for a cure, I
want to raise awareness of the condition.
“Sometimes when Harry and I are out and about people look at
us with pity, which I find really frustrating because Harry is
still a wonderful little boy and I want him to have as normal a
life as possible.
“I want the public to better understand people with
disabilities and treat Harry the same as everyone else. He's
still a person.”











2 Comments
by Annette Rush, petersfield
Friday, June 20 2008, 8:14AM
“Alice, you and your family are such inspirational, beautiful people and what a mum for your Harry to have! We WILL win and we will get our treatments to save our kids lives.”
by ELISABETH, formerly derby
Wednesday, June 18 2008, 6:41PM
“good luck. hope u get support from family n friends as u will need a good support network in time. think u hav made right decision about school. life should be normal as poss. xxx”