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A TEENAGER who suffered head injuries when she was mown down by her estranged partner asked for charges against him to be dropped and wants to be reconciled with him.

But, despite Stacey Stubley's plea, a judge jailed Asah Shah for a year.

Ms Stubley needed two blood transfusions and previously told the Derby Telegraph she thought she might go to sleep and never wake up after the incident in Bateman Street, Derby city centre.

Shah's car mounted a pavement before hitting Ms Stubley and then crashing into railings.

As well as her head wounds, Ms Stubley suffered a broken leg.

She was thrown into the air and landed on the back of her head and shoulders on the bonnet of the car, ending up in hospital for two weeks.

Shah carried out the attack after the two had become estranged, Derby Crown Court heard.

But despite the incident, the 19-year-old wants to reunite with Shah and asked for his charges to be dropped, saying her initial statements, where she talked about previous violent incidents, were untrue.

The prosecution agreed to disregard her earlier statements.

But Judge David Pugsley said: "I have sympathy with her wish but regard this as a matter with great gravity."

Sentencing Shah to 12 months in prison, Judge Pugsley said: "Something like two-thirds of homicides each year are committed by men on their wives or partners.

"Day-in day-out, whether sitting in criminal or county court, judges see men beating up their partners. Sadly, even in the gravest cases women have those men back and it is often repeated."

But the judge added: "I am not saying it will necessarily happen in your case."

The court heard the couple had separated a few weeks before the incident at about 4.30pm on August 21.

Clive Stockwell, prosecuting, said: "On the day, the defendant was keen to see her to resolve some financial issues – it seems the rent was to be paid."

Ms Stubley had been walking along Osmaston Road, Derby, with her sister, Emma, when she saw Shah in his car and he told her he wanted to talk to her.

Mr Stockwell said: "He offered her a lift and she refused. He was not happy with that. He decided to accelerate really fast towards her, to pull alongside her and brake at the last moment to scare her, just to get her into the vehicle, he said.

"He mounted the pavement and then lost control of the car."

Mr Stockwell said that the prosecution did not suggest that Shah had committed the offence with any intention of harming Ms Stubley but rather that it was a "reckless" act.

"Immediately afterwards the defendant apologised. He said 'I'm sorry I did it. I love you'.

"The effect of the impact was that Stacey was hospitalised for two weeks. She underwent an operation. She had fractures to her fibula and tibia. She is currently receiving physiotherapy but there have been no other ill effects."

Mr Stockwell said that Shah, who admitted inflicting grievous bodily harm and dangerous driving, had not intended to hurt her but had wanted to "scare her".

Mr Stockwell said: "He has pleaded guilty on the basis that he does not accept a history of domestic violence on the complainant and he did not deliberately run her over."

The court heard how Ms Stubley, formerly of Osmaston Road, Derby, had passed a letter to the judge about her feelings for the defendant.

Mr Stockwell said: "Last time she indicated that she did not wish the prosecution to proceed.

"She is keen to put forward that any reference of violence, intimidation, controlling behaviour is not relied on."

Avik Mukherjee, in mitigation, said Shah "deeply regretted" what he had done and accepted that he had to be punished.

He said: "He is a man who has come from a very decent, well-educated family, who has let down himself and them and hurt the one person he says he cares about more than anybody else, and for that he is to pay the price."

Mr Mukherjee said it appeared inevitable that they would be reconciled, but that if after a while she didn't want to continue the relationship any more Shah would let her walk away.

Judge Pugsley said he accepted Shah was "fundamentally a decent person" but thought he had "a problem with an obsessive behaviour".

He disqualified Shah, of Mornington Street, Leicester, from driving for 18 months, after which he will be required to take an extended test.

Following the hearing, Detective Inspector Dave Cox said: "At the time, we viewed it as being a very serious assault.

"It could potentially have been far more serious than the injuries she sustained. She was fortunate that the impact threw her over the car as opposed to underneath."

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    by Denver, Littleover

    Monday, June 14 2010, 12:12PM

    “Hi all, I think this lad should'nt want stacey back, as he does'nt knw the real stacey who loves mens company the same with her friend Tony (Girl) who wanted to become a muslim too, the gals love asians what more can be said. Rule .....”

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    by Voltaire, man who knows everything

    Tuesday, December 22 2009, 10:47AM

    “My dad told me a saying many, many years ago, and it still speaks volumes today.

    '' There nowt daft as women ''”

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    by Elaine, Mickleover

    Friday, December 18 2009, 3:56PM

    but letting her brothers/uncles/father and uncle Tom Cobley and all sort him out is not what justice is about in a civilised country.

    That's the very thing that makes these people violent. Why is it ok for someone's family to beat someone up? That's the way anarchy lies.

    Guffy: Judges & magistrates can only dish out sentences that are within the law as it stands. There are strict guidelines and if this Judge had locked this lovely chap up for 10 years he would have appealed and got it reduced to one year.....

    Legislation is needed to make some sentences tougher .....”

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    by gary, CHADDESDEN

    Friday, December 18 2009, 3:49PM

    “wonder what her brothers , uncles ,father would like to do to him? leave him to rot , hes a dangerous man.”

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    by Guffy, Derby

    Friday, December 18 2009, 3:25PM

    “Poor Girl. She needs support more than anything then eventually she may come to her senses and forget this baffon. Hope he rots in hell the coward.
    Self control including anger management is the responsibility of every adult regardless whether your a parent or not. There is no excuse for this sort of behaviour in society. Even though the Justice system can prosecute without the victims agreement it makes a mockey of it when they dish out such lenient sentences.”

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    by Elaine, Mickleover

    Friday, December 18 2009, 3:02PM

    “I think we can ALL 'see the problem' - it is finding workable ways of fixing it that is the difficult part.

    I am certainly not trying to justify this sorry story, just commenting on how to stop women like Stacey from 'forgiving' their abuser because they cannot see any alternate lifestyle for themselves other than being in such a destructive relationship.

    If we want to change the way society is then we have to find ways of actually DOING it. We can all pontificate on what's wrong.....

    And they could lock this bloke up for as long as they like for me!”

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    by burtonftw, derby

    Friday, December 18 2009, 2:53PM

    “12 months for mounting the kerb! should have got minimun of 15 years - Stacey's and over people's safety and lives were not an issue for Mssr Shah.

    elaine and james are trying to fix and/or justify this whole sorry state but unfortunately believe that we are now beyond all hope as most people cannot see the crux of the problem of 'society'.”

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    by JamesK, Derby

    Friday, December 18 2009, 2:19PM

    “I get very weary reading about people akin to Shah, who, as soon as things don't go their way can see no wrong in taking the law into his own hands. It seems to be a culture of today's modern society and the courts need to stamp it out with vigour. He is extremely lucky not to have faced a far more serious charge and no amount of pleading should detract us from that, even from Ms Stubley, who is also extremely lucky to be alive to plead leniency for this idiot.”

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    by Elaine, Mickleover

    Friday, December 18 2009, 1:34PM

    “James I don't disagree with you over this 'my entitlements & rights' culture - and too many are full of their rights but remain silent about their responsibilities.

    The thing is you cannot teach some children at school and not others, that would soon get out and there wouldn't half be trouble!

    I'd rather catch the Stacey Stubleys of the world earlier and if that means that Anger Management etc goes on the PSHE curriculum - so be it.

    Education is the only way to break the cycle and personally I believe that these 'citizenship & living' lessons should be taught in mixed ability and gender classes.”

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    by James, Derby

    Friday, December 18 2009, 1:09PM

    “Yes, they do, but the massive issue in society at the minute is that most people have this misplaced sense of entitlement. There are those parents who can't teach discipline. Quite right. But there are much more of those parents who simply won't. Because they know the state will intervene, spoon-feed them and offer them support. There's simply no incentive to motivate children.

    Schools should always remain the fall back option.”

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